Wednesday, March 30, 2011

MORE DEFINITIONS OF LOVE


Basically “LOVE” is a unique feeling that can’t be defined if we really live it. On the
contrary it can be defined with all its technicalities for all other purposes. To be
very straight and simple, “Love” can be defined as the behavioral approach between
two persons that involves affection, emotion and sentiments.

Here we have tried to define love through several definitions.

 * Love is a feeling of strong connection and attachment those are persuaded by extreme
   delight and admiration; dedication and devotion to each other along with affection and
   tenderness.
 
 * Love is not a necessity, but it is life's greatest gift and luxury. It is to care, to be kind and
   patient. It is considered as perfect love when a person doesn't expect anything else but
   love.

 * Love knows when to put pride to the side, because the greatest thing one can be proud of
   is the love that is  shared.

  * Love is or should be unconditional. And thus is giving and selfless, it is a celebration of
    what is right and what is true

  * For the unperfected will pass upon, the coming of that which is perfect, as perfect love
    never ends.

  * Love is undying devotion.

  * Love is the desire to be intimate both physically and emotionally.

  * Love endures all, hopes all, and bears all. It is believing, sharing and dreaming.

  * Love is a feeling of completeness, forgiving, understanding and inspiring.

  * Love is the attainment of life's greatest inspiration. It is supporting, but not overbearing.

  * Love is a complete expression of oneself or the other. it is being open to each other's
    expression

  * Love can be strong, yet so fragile.

  * There are those out there who have not been lucky enough to find it, some never will. In
    addition, what one would call true love...love in its best, purest, truest sense is even rarer
    and harder to find.

  * The dream of finding and marrying for true love exists and concludes by everything falling
    into place.

WHAT IS LOVE ..




 It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind. 

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.  Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.   A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said �Love all� 

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship.  The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But �love� is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.
In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it. 
Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars.   Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect. 
Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

                                                     Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
                                                                    William Shakespeare.

55 REASONS WHY I LOVEYOU


1) The way you stand by my side
2) The times you make sure nothing will harm me
3) How you always find a new way to "WoW" me
4) When I'm sad, you take the pain away with a joke
5) How you always look deep into my eyes

6) How you can make my heart melt with your soft lips
7) The way you hold my hand so tight
8) The way you never let my hands go
8) How you always watch out for me
9) They way you make sure I have everything I need
10) How you always know what to say when I get mad at you

11) When you buy me things out of the blue
12) How you say the cutest things over and over and never gets old
13) The way you play with my hair when I'm falling asleep
14) The way you stare at me as if I am the most handsome guy in the world!
15) The times when you where determind for me not to be mad at you anymore

16) The way you look when I get all dressed up
17) The smile you give after I'm done kissing you
18) The way you act like a dork but make me laugh
19) The way your not embarrased to say or do anything in front of me
20) How you can just defend me and not be scared

21) They way you walk when you get sad!!
22) The look you make when you get jealous
23) When Im feeling the worst, you make me feel the happiest
24) The way you sing to be all cheesy
25) How you can just drive hours to see me for a day

26) How you always finish my sentences
27) How your the only one who thinks im NOT weird
28) How your the only one who gets my joke... and laughs
29) The way we play stupid games, but you play anyways
30) How I can never hate you

31) How you love me like no other
32) The way you touch me as if I might break
33) How you tell me long stories that have no meaning, but you know I'll listen anyway
34) How you listen to me talk for hours
35) How you forgive me when I do wrong

36) How you hardly ever get mad at me
37) The way you look after I say I love you
38) How times it seems like we're the only ones here
39) the way your not embarrased to call me sweet things in front of anyone
40) The way you call me every freakin minute

41) The way you always find a way to see me or talk to me
42) How you put ME before you friends
43) How you would do anything I say
44) The way you get my attention
45) The way I turn you on, without me doing anything

46) How you can just speak your mind
47) How your not afraid to tell me your feelings
48) How you can cry in front of me with out being shy or embarassed
49) How you can diss parties to just stay home with me all night
50) How we talk on the phone all night

51) How we both get along so well
52) The way you spend all your money to buy calling cards for me
53) The way we're so much alike!!
54) How you make me feel when I think I'm nothing
55) the way you inspire me with your thoughts and emotions!!!!

REASONS WHY 'I LOVE YOU'


                                                    I can be myself when I am with you.
    
                           Your idea of romance is dim lights, soft music, and just the two of us.
    
                               Because you make me feel like, like, like I have never felt before.
    
                                        I can tell you anything, and you won't be shocked.

       

            Your undying faith is what keeps the flame out of love alive
    
                        You and me together, we can make magic.
    
                                     We're a perfect match.
    
                   Thinking of you, fills me with a wonderful feeling.



                                      Your love gives me the feeling, that the best is still ahead.
    
                                     You never give up on me, and that's what keeps me going.
    
                                                       You are simply irresistible
    
                                         I love you because you bring the best out of me.

   

                                                                         Your terrific sense of humor
    
                                                    Every time I look at you, my heart misses a beatheart
    
                                                          You're the one who holds the key to my heart
    
                                                     You always say what I need to hear (You are perfect).

                                                           You have taught me the true meaning of love.



                      Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything.
    
                                You are my theme for a dream.
    
                      I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you.
    
                      When I look into your eyes, I can see your heart.
    
                         Your love for me is a natural anti-depressant.

   

    I love to hear your voice.
    
    Your love has helped me to rediscover myself.
    
    Your love is an effective anti-dote to despair.
    
    I love to wake up with you by my side...It makes my days better.
    
    You always make me feel that you are by my side no matter what.



                              I love that feeling of being secure when you wrap your arms around me.
    
                                      I love the way you keep your cool when I do something stupid.
    
                                            Just being with you feels like I can defy the whole world.
    
                                                                     You mean the world to me.
    
                           I like your small gestures that speak volumes about how much you care.

       

                           I love the way you treasure the gifts that I gave you.
    
                     I love the way you patch up with me after a tumultuous fight.
    
     And, of-course, your intelligence, 'cause you were smart enough to fall in love with me ;-)